No thought that enters your mind is REALITY. Nor should it be treated as such.

They are inaccurate.  Therefore the feelings you are feeling, are are coming from inaccurate thoughts. Lets make a change.

Who are you?

What do you think defines who you are?



"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."


You are not your mistakes. 

oh mirror in the sky what is love?

How do you love someone you have feelings of hate towards? 
How do you love someone who hates you?
How do you love someone you resent?
How do you love someone who wrongs you, who is unkind to you?


Well this one is simple but when I learned this, it meant a great deal.  It is one of those things we already think we know because it is simple and makes so much sense. 


Maybe you are struggling with feeling love towards others. Maybe just towards one person.


"My friend, love is a verb. Love-the feeling- is a fruit of the the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. "


Love as a verb, before Love as a feeling.

Not all who wander are lost

Its been said that, not all who wander are lost.


What is it about these times we wander?
Is it far from pleasing? Is it disheartening?
Many view wandering as a time that weighs down your soul which is the cause of loss of hope, &lessened dreams. The cause of empty eyes, vacant hearts, & lost love...

There is however this perception of wandering.  The times you bend down so you can jump higher.  The times when you fall, but in return gain necessary strength on your way back up. Its when something stabs you in the heart, but in time that same hurt, turns to wisdom.

Sometimes.. its in these times that we wander, that we discover. That we grow..
It can make the blurry become clear, and open our limited range of vision to limitless sight.

ForYourInformation..

Ever since I was very young I would write in my journal.

I found at a fairly young age that it was the best way to solve any problem.

I began to recognize my pattern of starting an entry with a question, a worry, or with something i didn't understand and end up with the answer or solution.

The mess in my head changed to clarity on paper.

All done pretty unconsciously.

I thought it was something that just worked for me.

But then I found this. 

"Just as breathing exercises help integrate body and mind, writing is a kind of psycho-neural muscular activity which helps bridge and integrate the conscious and subconscious minds. Writing distills, crystalizes and clarifies thought and helps break the whole into parts"

So Im thinkin it might work for you too. 

There isn't too many ways that you can "clarify thought" .

And most likely you don't know whats really goin on in there.

Chances are you can learn a lot from yourself.

Maybe YOU can solve some of your own problems.

In a world that persistently doubts, judges and demeans the possibility of our character through vacant eyes, we need to believe in people; not in what we see, but what we don't see

We are living in a world that doubts.

We are surrounded by a society that judges and demeans.

its like we lost our faith. 

not only in things, more importantly in people.

in our friends and our family and in those closest to us. 

everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt

we need to believe not in what we see.

but what we don't see; which is what they are capable of.

their potential.

see

Music. What would i do.

without music?

it says it all. 

it says everything we can't say.

its why we cling to it.

because its finally something that brings comfort with its understanding

 something that can express what you can't.

it can make you feel inspired, it can bring hope.

it helps us make sense of a world that doesn't. 

the times we fail,

then the lessons we learn from that failure.

the times we crawl,

and the lessons we learn from standing back up

the times we succeed,

and the lessons we learn from success 

when we smile,

then learn from happiness

the times we stand,

when we thought we could never get back up

the times we saw the light,

and the lessons we learned from holding on.

"all we need to know, is what we're going to know"

Its not confusing.

its plain and simple.

yet so complex.

we need to know the intelligence we are going to know.

the lessons we are going to learn 

&see through eyes that we are going to see through.